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What is your idea of a perfect relationship, trust, good communication? Depending on who you ask, you will surely get different answers. I personally feel there isn't such thing as a perfect relationship. That is why the question asks to state "Your idea" of one. I write about relationships in pretty much all of my novels and poetry. In my work as a drug and alcohol counselor I also conduct relationship related groups. Now granted that the client's I work with have no clue what a perfect relationship is. Their idea of one is what they are used to in their life such as violence and drugs. I try to teach them appropriate ways to think of this subject then I have them practice it hopefully to make it reality. Of course some people you will never change. Another reason answers may vary to this question, is culture and age. Older people usually have a different view, sometimes more mature, but often unrealistic. Some old timers (70 or older) still believe that the woman should stay at home while the man works. Now days, one income is very hard, it takes two incomes to get through life. Youngsters under twenty five, say it is having a beautiful woman, while individuals in their thirties might say a smart intelligent partner. Relationships are tough regardless of your age , culture, or past experience. The people I work with use drugs and alcohol and that adds a whole new spin to the subject. I have had client's tell me that only hitting your partner a couple of times a month is normal . This is what they have been used to. I have had woman tell me that getting hit is a normal for them. Background and experience is a defining factor in one's answer. To me trust and good communication are my idea of a perfect relationship. However, I don't believe there is a perfect one., to me a perfect relationship I suppose is whatever the two people agree on and are happy with. As always please take the time to browse my site, check out my novel's . Have a good day.---Keith
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