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Have you ever met a person that seems to thrive on chaos and drama? I have. In my work and in my writing I write and discuss this often. When a person has spent their entire life being raised in a dysfunctional family for example, they get used to chaos. When there is nothing swirling around in their heads they will either obsess over stuff or create crap in their heads to get them upset. Some people seek situations in life to get involved in that is either not their business or they will feed on other people's problems. This is because when there are moments of peace and calm in their heads they feel like something is wrong, they are not use to peace and calmness. Without fail they will find something to cause chaos and will self sabotage themselves because the peace feels wrong, uncomfortable, or they think they don't deserve to feel peace. Chaos makes them comfortable. Just as there are receptors in our brains that crave such things as drugs, sweets, coffee whatnot. There are receptors in the brain that crave emotions such as chaos, anger, even poor decision making skills which believe it or not, creates a stimulus in our brain. When we try to change a behavior these receptors get hungry missing the stimulus. This is why it is so easy to resort back to unhealthy behaviors. Have a good day. --Keith
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