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Is it good to argue in relationships? I feel that it is, but there are fair ways to argue. There is not any relationship on earth where people do not argue. It will happen, and their is no way around it. The best thing to do is learn how to argue fairly. There is a correct way.
1. Of course, no violence. 2. Take turns talking and listening. 3. Stick to the subject at hand, don't bring up past arguments or things your partner did five years ago for example. 4. Do not belittle your partner. 5. Try to talk in calm voice. 6. Do not blame, own up to your own mistakes and admit it if you are wrong. 7. Do not talk about or name call your partner's family members. Most relationships fail due to the lack of communication. Learn to communicate. Learn to argue fairly, there is a successful way. Remember, the goal isn't to win an argument with your partner, it is to compromise with them.- Kelly
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James
7/10/2014 03:34:00 am
No its not good to argue in relationships. Argue means anger, Maybe its because of my inexperience but I don't see how 2 people who claim to love each other can argue, u are supposed to hash the majority of differences out before u get serious, I do recognize things can come up, but the fact is most arguments aren't serious, most are over money an disrespect an my way or the highway thinking, my way or the highway thinking wouldnt have been a problem if both people talk about stuff like that before hand or got out while the gettings good, but I understand not all relationships are built on love like family some are monetary, some are political an religious(tose two should really be called debates cause they aren't really personal unless emotion is involved, religion is personal but its private an public, politics is just public) Its good to converse, arguing is never a good sign, my grandparents we married for a long time they argues some, but like I said before it was never serious, there to be the bigger person an there has to be conversation.
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