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In any relationship arguments are going to happen. We argue with ourselves (lol) much less others. So since arguments are bound to happen then the only thing left to do is learn to argue fairly. There is a way to do this. The leading cause for relationship break -ups are poor communication skills. The first thing in an argument is to take turns listening to each other. Next is to stick to the subject at hand. Don't bring up issues from three years ago. This will take you off of the subject and then you will not remember what was the original issue. Of course no name calling, no violence, no talking about each other's family members. Another thing is, if your wrong admit it, own up to your crap. All of this takes practice. There isn't anyway out of arguing, actually it's healthy to argue as long as it is done fairly. Arguments are not about winning , they are about compromise and trying to find a solution. Sometimes the resolution may be no solution. Have a good day.--Keith
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